this is a blog for you

What do you do when life gives you surprises? Either good or bad, life still goes on. The first week of 2011 has done a lot to me. Meeting up a special one, special as from the aspect from one's sincerity that really touches you from within. Got myself so desperate to spend time with, and then end up ruining myself and ruining the relationship. Indeed there was nothing much happening, even when I question myself now, I have no idea why did I do such things. Complications went on even within just the first few days of the year. And it did not just end here. Trying to violate myself from then on, without a particular reasonable reason. And I guess 2011 has actually been good to me, letting me meet someone like this after that. I really have no idea what kind of relationship is this, and I really find it hard to give a good explanation of it. Don't question me, not even I know how to explain, and it is not the matter of I do not feel like telling. And it did not stop here either. Life got a little bit dramatic from then on. Cried like a baby while talking to you in the bus, so many emotions bursting out from within, causing me to shed out all my tears. This make me even more confused, have totally lost my mind from then on. I think I really have no idea what am I seeking in my life. Trying to be persistent, trying to find consistency, and wondering did I actually already achieve it, or not? Attempted to question myself, got tired of keep questioning myself something that I really cannot figure out. I suppose there is consistency here, now, but then, how should I face you? You just stepped into my life for these very short few days, but you have brought impact to me that no one ever did, you literally took me to such a new extreme. And I am so sure that, I am not giving myself illusion, and do you actually know that this is really not just merely infatuation? I understand too well that you are having enough burden, you are having enough commitments, you are wearing yourself out all the time, and I am so clear that I really do not want to add any worries to you. But, I just did that, over and over again. I want to apologize, because I really feel bad, because I really care about your feeling. I was so afraid to tell you anything more than I should, so afraid of letting you worry about me. I know very clearly that this is not what I want. I want to be considerate enough to spend time with you, just to look at you, innocently, and just to share with you my feelings and my every day life. I want our relationship to be simple and that is it. But, see what have I got myself into. Into someone that you do not want to look at in your life, that is so random and so casual, that ruin their own lives, that is just same like another guy out there. I feel bad and I really do. There is nothing much I can say and I know they would not really mean something if I say it right now, I have already done something, or many things that I should not have done them. I just treasure you and I really do. I do not want to defend myself, I am already wrong, but I really care about you, a lot.

Cherish YEAR 2011

First of all, happy year 2011. Actually, I tried to draft a blog for so long already, but I never succeed, it is either the network is too bad that I get annoyed while half way writing, or I got stuck half way. The conclusion is just, I did not get to post one for so long. Indeed, a lot of things happened, but one thing very true is, when so many happened and so many people passed by, you can hardly describe everything in the end. Memories may pop out in the middle of the night, but it is not that easy for you to make everything clear in one article. So, the conclusion is, guys, just treasure every moment you had, even you may not be able to remember them long time after that, but they are all deep down in your heart and they for no doubt, happened. And it is also why people blog isn't it? Just to note down some precious moments in their life that they cherish so much, and also those tough times that forced them to grow up. Exactly, every second counts. So now, I'm blogging on the train, after seeing people wave good bye to their loved ones, it is kinda depressing actually. Not sad, but it makes you feel, oh, again, that is bad. However, there is one way I use to cheer myself up, let go and leave first, then from now on you got to prepare for the next meeting isn't it? At least, at least you should be able to feel better if you think that way. Why be sad? Smile, I'm leaving home now, but smile, I'm going to gather again with you a while more. Happy year 2011 to all my loved ones :) Thanks God, always and always!

Resolution Volume 1

It had been real long since last time I really wrote here. Life had been good to me, but my greed has made me wanted more. So, I've decided to set resolution! New year resolution, 2011 :) For me it is some kind of tradition, you must do it every year :) You can't live without goal, seriously!

1. I won't drink until I get drunk, getting tipsy is the ultimate limit.

2. I will focus on my case laws and articles, I'll read everyday :)

3. I will get my temper On. I will be a good quality tempered-glass :)

4. I'll stop shopping for clothes, as I already have more than enough of them.

5. I will drink Ikea coffee instead of Starbucks'

6. I will take my vitamins and healthy milkshake everyday. wow. they are delicious!

7. Hmm. I will try my best to sweep the floor .. almost every day?

Okay. to be continued. Ciao!

so what is it .

it had been so long and it is really long.
but, the thing is, i had not really changed yet.
everything about me is quite the same.
and sometimes, i really have no idea which of me is me.
if i was just pretending, then why would i care.
if i was just trying to have fun, then why will it matter.
if i think that you were not really something, why am i feeling it so much.
if it is not meant to be, why will it appear for so many times.
and if, it is meant to be, why it never get through.
i think what i want is just something simple. but i confused myself as well.
well. i thought what i want is just something simple.
but i still believe it.
if, if it comes to me, i might just be happy going lucky, and live with it.
but why, it just doesn't happen.
wonder of wonders.
wonder how will it be.
if i miss you, then who are you.

needed

so terrified, of being a match that can't be ignited anymore .
thanks for telling me all that. i thought that you should rephrase though.
i don't care if they are all true or not, they are heart-breaking.
i know i have to get a life, but i need you with me.
motivate me, tap me on my shoulder when i'm smiling to you, signifying that i'm okay.
i need all of you with me.
it is going to be achieved.

get a life

every sadness.

every happiness.

every laughter.

every tear.

every forgiveness.

every surprise.

every celebration.

every depression.

every new-birth.

every funeral.

every beauty.

every resentment.

every realization.

every moment.

every ONE.

GET A LIFE .

Every Single Life Around you

If you have ever cared about it, please don't let any life simply pass you by anymore. You will never know that this life going to bring you the next second, you will never know what will happen next. Life is not just a game, it is more precious and yet fragile than just a game. It's not like a game that you can have a second try after the game is over. Don't only learn how to feel regret, learn how to hold on it. I hate life passing by. I may not get happy, I may not feel satisfied after that, but isn't it sure that anything, anything is better than just letting it pass you by?
Never take someone for granted anymore, because they really worth more than just that. Even if he is a stranger in front of you, why don't you smile at him instead of giving him a strange stare?
Here, I give my deepest condolence. You will be God blessed.
I do not know you well enough, but you are my friend. I thank God, for giving me a lesson, again.
I miss you all, my friends and darlings.
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